WILL WE STILL BE FRIENDS?

 

“we have been friends over a long time, but since the last few months, i think i have started to like you”-

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this is the statement which we like to say when we fall for someone who is a dear friend of us. but, it is just a like because the real emotions never take the form of words to express. so many times, many good boy-girl friendships turn into both sided-love, but neither of them are able to express their emotions. 

why?

“may be, if i say her/him that i like him, i may lose her/him forever.” it is this provident attitude of loss of the beloved one that chokes us from spitting our emotions. we never want to lose that person forever and endure their sharp machetes of  recoil. it is obvious that this fear is the biggest obstacle and yet it is the only door to take the relationship to a new and beautiful level. 

 

 

it is often a point of debate of human emotions that, how can we love our friends but not make friends our love of life? generally, when emotions take the form of words, it results in a big outburst and stress for both of them, or may be not. we never know what the other person, who we regard as our friend and may have fallen for, may also share the same emotions for us. so, my dear readers, if you have a friend in your life, whom you sort of love and spend your life with, just express your love for her/him.

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you may never know, she/he must be the one whom your life was waiting for to add colors to it. don’t fear of the loss, true friends share the same emotions. just wreathe words to your emotions in the most optimistic and heart-touching fashion, there is always a positive ray of light on the other side of your providence. go for it!

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TOUGH to find, …

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TOUGH to find, TOUGHER to let go

the truth is in our lives, there are obviously few special persons for whom we can walk that extra mile, even when our body has given up. 
the happiest feeling is when they appreciate it and can understand the inclination towards the friendship. 
it is the beauty of any relationship. 
VALUE THE TRUE FRIENDS…. TOUGH to find, TOUGHER to let go… 
Photo: the truth is in our lives, there are obviously few special persons for whom we can walk that extra mile, even when our body has given up. 
the happiest feeling is when they appreciate it and can understand the inclination towards the friendship. 
it is the beauty of any relationship. :)
VALUE THE TRUE FRIENDS.... TOUGH to find, TOUGHER to let go... :)

how did you feel it.?

CAN WE STILL BE FRIENDS?

” i think we should break-up now, i promise we will remain good friends”, these are the fragments of her last words that i remember. shattered, as i was to the extremes, but also at the loss of words.

 

estrangement is the atramentous emotion of our lives. no one wants to get separated from their beloved ones and it is an ache to remember, but which one? the separation or union? quite complicated cornucopia of emotions. 

remaining friends with the same person is often a choice left for both of them. some regard it is another way of getting in touch with that person and rest find it too tough to get along. well, it is easier to love your friend, but it is toughest to befriend your love when you see her/him in someone else’s lap. 

 

the truth be told, it has always been her/his love that we crave for and the warmth to keep us smiling. but, when we go through the break-up and still will to remain friends, it is not obvious for both of them to have consent to that. 

 

how can we talk to each other now, but not that close?

how can we walk with each other, but not hands in hands?

 

 
 

how can you think of her/him, but not call her on?

 

 
 
there are so many queries that our agonized heart faces, but she/he is no more that much into you to even answer them.

 

 

well it needs a tough heart to love someone and give her/him all that you got with no expectations, but it takes a tougher heart to wear a scarf of pretense that you don’t care and remain friends. i don’t know, whether the tough heart or tougher hear is the victor, but i know the loser, it is US, (the boy and the girl).

 

break up is never the only solution to a misunderstanding. we could have walked a  common path based on personal discussions. it will be the regret for long. 

“say your heart, not yet over though,

we are not over to love each other, no,

we may hurt and fight, i understand,

but, beyond our love, nothing else can stand

Often, the memo…

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Often, the memories that encrypt a doleful line over pale cheeks on their reminiscence, have carved deep seated scars on the tenderest part of us.

 

                                     the moments that we embrace so close to us to our softest parts of  lives, just desert us with plethora of tears and disappointments. when the frame of picture carrying these moments strike our mind, only thing that they embark are lines of their absences over our cheeks. it is then, when we introspect that , it was the closest to us and will ever be, might not be physically but, obviously spiritually.

 

it is when we make a promise, not to let anyone come too close to ever replace those lovely memories by their moments. immaterial, if we ever get that person back, but we learn to live with that pain of estrangement and hope that destiny may have us together again.

A HOPE WITHOUT EXPECTATION!

Stop crying for…

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Stop crying for things falling into pieces, do your stuff, only the best things will fall into perfect place.

No problem finds its solutions in saying, “WHY ME?” the solution to every impediment towards our mighty goal is, “THANK GOD! IT IS ME.” Every apprehension is a cowardly move, but a positive approach is well admired. It is just like STARING AT THE BURNING EYES FAILURE WITH ACIDIC TENACITY. 

Work towards our goal without listening to trifles can only propel us ahead to achieve humongous success.  Just drudge, Not cry over mishaps, The end HAS TO BE THE BEST… there is no destiny, where we reach finally is our ULTIMATE DESTINATION….. BUILD IT NOW, TO LIVE  IT THEN. 🙂